Look on any adult websites – they all feature Asian women, because they know how popular Asian fetishes are. You know who else knows this? Asian women. The first thing you need to know about dating Asian women is that you need to take race out of the equation. They are human just like you.
This article will guide you on dating Asian women, and show you the do’s and dont’s as well as where to meet Asian women, such as an online Asian dating service.
First Lesson – Never say that you “have an Asian fetish” or “I love Asian girls” or “I have yellow fever” or anything that classifies them immediately by their race. This is probably their number one pet peeve!
Second Lesson – Stop assuming that they are demure and sexually available to fulfill your “geisha fantasies.” There is this widespread stereotype that’s mostly been portrayed by the cinema, that Asian women are passive, submissive objects. This is 2010, not 1010. They are not objects. Dating Asian women should be the same for you as if you were dating a white, black, green or red woman. In fact, even though an Asian woman may appear demure or passive on the surface, they are often quite sexually aggressive when they are comfortable with you. And often quite aggressive in general in relationships!
Third Lesson – If you want to be out there dating Asian women, learn to be able to identify their particular ethnicity or don’t say anything about it at all! Sometimes you can get this by their last name, facial features, or accent if they have one. But don’t rely on this totally. If you’re not certain,don’t guess! It is better to not bring the subject up at all. They are so used to this screw up by non-Asian men, that it will be such a relief to them when you don’t do it! And by the way – ASIAN is NOT an ethnicity!
The Family Life – For many Asian women, especially ones from “traditional” families, it is often enforced upon them to only date men of their own ethnicity. Of course, this can work to your advantage, because women whether they be Asian or non-Asian like to rebel against their families and societal pressures. So use this “forbiddeness” to your advantage!
My experience has been that often Chinese, Japanese, and Korean women prefer Anglo white men (light hair, light eyes) whereas Vietnamese and Filipino women often prefer Latin or Mediterranean men (dark hair, dark eyes). Of course we are all individuals and these generalities will not hold for everyone. However with any form of dating, it’s a numbers game. In other words, put yourself in the best possible scenarios to attract Asian women and play the numbers.
An Asian online dating service or Asian dating web site are going to be the best places to play these numbers. There are a ton of Asian dating sites!